[2/ 64] When celebrating their Eids, muslims commit many misdemeanors some of these are even committed in every day life but are practiced on a large scale in festivals, such as: shaving the beard, shaking hands with women who are not Mahrams, women displaying their beauties, imitating the disbelievers in their way of dressing, (1) listening to music, visiting graves on the Eid Days distributing sweets and food there and setting on them, the intermingling of men and women, weeping the dead, sitting with non-Mahram women, spending money extravagantly and uselessly and many other misdemeanors. (2)
The purpose of our discussion here is to discuss things related to Sal?t for it is done for seeking approach to All?h ( - عز وجل -)!!
The following points discuss the mistakes done when doing Sal?tul Eidain:
[3/ 64] Abandoning performing Sal?tul Eid believing it to be just a Sunnah and not doing it in the Musall?:
Ash-Shawk?n? said: ‘The prophet ( - ) used to perform the Eid Sal?t in both Eidain [sing. Eid] and never missed one. He ( - ) also ordered muslims to attend it even women -whether old or young and even those who are having their menses. The latter were ordered not to do Sal?t with other muslims but to share them the goodness and listen to the Khutbah. Even the woman who has no garment to wear; she should borrow one from her muslim sister. All these orders and instructions clearly and strongly indicate that attending Sal?t Eid is an affirmed W?jib on every muslim individual -not on a group of muslims’. (3)
I believe that Ash-Shawk?n? refers to ’Umm ‘Atiyyah’s narration. She said: ‘The prophet ( - ) ordered us to take to Eidul Fitr and Eidul Adh? Sal?t the adult and young women even those who are having their menses. The later should not,
(1) See Chapter One.
(2) See: “A‘y?dul Isl?m” (p. 58), chapter: “ Bida‘ul Eidain” and “Ahk?mul Eidain F?s Sunnatil Mutahharah” (pp. 33 - ... ).
(3) “As-Saylul Jarr?r” (vol. 1 / p. 315).